Imitation

Good Morning All,

It has been said that “imitation is the sincerest form of flattery;” (not sure who said it; googled and goodsearched it to no avail). But the phrase still stands and everywhere we look, we can see imitations, some sincere and others not: designer knock-offs; hairstyles and lifestyles of the rich and famous; and the latest summer television reality show, The Celebrity Look-a-Like Show.”

There have always been impersonators of celebrities, but one that continues to stand the test of time, is that of Elvis Presley. Last week, on the 30th anniversary of Elvis’ death, the TV airwaves were filled with the many celebrations that were taking place to remember this famous entertainer and his music. His daughter, Lisa Marie, chose this time to also introduce a new “Daddy and Me” album of voice-over duets with her famous dad. Hundreds of Elvis Presley wannabes, outfitted from head to toe, some better than most, could be seen from NYC to LA—everybody getting into the act. Don’t you wonder how many hours these folks have spent trying to get the voice, the intonations, let alone the hair, that upper lip sneer :), the gestures, the eye movement, all just right? If imitation really is the sincerest form of flattery, Elvis should be flattered beyond all flattery, don’t ya think?

The gyrations and entertainment by the Elvis wannabes and even the release of a new music album with his daughter seem an appropriate way to remember this famous person. But as each anniversary of his death rolls around, I become increasingly uncomfortable by some of what takes place at Graceland : the candlelight vigils, the singing of hymns, the renovations of the mansion to present upgrades for each anniversary; the somber remembrances of the tragic last years of his life, etc. If I didn’t know any better, I would think that a religious figure were being honored and remembered.

When it comes to imitating and remembering someone, I think the emphasis needs to be more about the lasting characteristics of that person…how one lives from day to day; how one shares with those in need; how one cares for others; how one treats a neighbor, a teacher, a spouse or partner; parents or grandparents; how one lives out one’s faith. That’s why I believe that more emphasis needs to be put on the everyday lives of the people who surround us. Think about the influence we have on the children in our families and church family. Think about how they look up to you and me, even when we think they’re not. It is our life that is out there for all the world to see.

And when all is said and done, who is it that we imitate in life? Who is it that we look to? Thomas a Kempis, over 500 years ago, wrote a little book, Imitation of Christ, truly an oldie but goodie, that helps us bear resemblance to the One who came to point the way to God. But, hey, if you can’t put your hand on that book, there’s always the Bible :) “…Therefore, be imitators of God as beloved children and live in love as Christ loved us…” (Ephesians 5:1).

If imitation truly is the sincerest form of flattery, won’t God be pleased?
Blessings, Joanne